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I am an introvert and I love it. I am an
introvert
and I love it.
And I'm not alone. Introverts are everywhere, And I'm not alone. Introverts are everywhere,
and our quiet approach to life, our need for solitary time, and our quiet approach to life, our need for
solitary
time,
isn't a flaw - it's a gift. isn't a
flaw
- it's a gift.
But as an introvert it's not always easy to realise But as an
introvert
it's not always easy to
realise
how wonderful you are. how wonderful you are.
The world feels like a place that rewards extroverts. The world feels like a place that rewards
extroverts
.
Where being loud is mistaken for being confident and happy. Where being loud is mistaken for being confident and happy.
Where everyone has something to say, but nobody listens. Where everyone has something to say, but nobody listens.
A world of open-plan offices, networking parties, A world of
open-plan
offices,
networking
parties,
and big personalities. and big
personalities
.
For those who speak softly, it's easy to feel left out. For those who speak
softly
, it's easy to feel
left out
.
As a child, I blended into the background. As a child, I
blended
into the background.
Many thought that I had little to say or that I simply didn't like others. Many thought that I had little to say or that I simply didn't like others.
But that wasn't true. But that wasn't true.
People often think that introverts are shy, or antisocial. People often think that introverts are
shy
, or
antisocial
.
But these are misconceptions. But these are
misconceptions
.
Introverts, like anyone, can find socialising fun. Introverts, like anyone, can find socialising fun.
But while parties leave extroverts energised, But while parties leave
extroverts
energised,
after some time, introverts need to recharge... after some time, introverts need to
recharge
...
away from everyone. away from everyone.
There is a scientific theory for this. There is a scientific theory for this.
There are two important chemicals found in all our brains - There are two important chemicals found in all our brains -
dopamine and acetylcholine. dopamine and acetylcholine.
Dopamine is like a hit of energy Dopamine is like
a hit
of energy
when we take risks or meet new people - when we take risks or meet new people -
and it makes extroverts feel great. and it makes
extroverts
feel great.
But introverts are more sensitive to dopamine But introverts are more sensitive to dopamine
and get quickly over-stimulated. and get quickly
over-stimulated
.
That's why we prefer the more slow-burn feeling we get That's why we prefer the more
slow-burn
feeling we get
when our brains release acetylcholine. when our brains release acetylcholine.
That happens when we concentrate, read, or focus our minds. That happens when we concentrate, read, or focus our minds.
It makes us introverts feel relaxed, alert and content. It makes us introverts feel relaxed, alert and content.
But it barely registers with extroverts. But it
barely
registers with
extroverts
.
Of course, like anything, it's a sliding scale. Of course, like anything, it's a
sliding scale
.
You can lean one way or another. Or be a bit of both - You can
lean
one way or another. Or be a bit of both -
known as an ambivert. known as an
ambivert
.
Now I understand myself better, I am deeply grateful for how I am. Now I understand myself better, I am deeply grateful for how I am.
Instead of filling up space with small talk, I listen patiently Instead of filling up space with
small talk
, I listen patiently
and make my words matter. and make my words matter.
I have few friends but our connection is deep. I have few friends but our connection is deep.
I love spending time alone. I love spending time alone.
It's where the chaos of a long day can finally settle. It's where the chaos of a long day can finally settle.
I can reflect and listen to my thoughts, I can
reflect
and listen to my thoughts,
and eventually reconnect with myself. and eventually reconnect with myself.
Only after that am I ready to share with the world again. Only after that am I ready to share with the world again.
I have learnt strategies for finding comfort in our noisy world - I have learnt strategies for finding comfort in our noisy world -
from using music to create bubbles of peace, from using music to create bubbles of peace ,
to escaping to a quiet park at lunchtime. to escaping to a quiet park at lunchtime.
I adore the intensity and chaotic beauty of the world. I adore the intensity and
chaotic
beauty of the world.
But it's in quiet spaces where I feel truly at home. But it's in quiet spaces where I feel truly at home.
If introversion were more valued by society, If introversion were more valued by society,
it could make a massive difference to our collective future. it could make a massive difference to our
collective
future.
The unique attributes of introverts really are a deep, quiet strength. The unique
attributes
of introverts really are a deep, quiet strength.
And as Gandhi, put it, "In a gentle way, you can shake the world." And as Gandhi, put it, "In a gentle way, you can shake the world."
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